Happiness

Psychology

Life satisfaction

Social psychology

The Journal of Positive Psychology

Americans are guaranteed the right to 'pursue happiness' for themselves. But might they be better off if they pursued happiness for others? In five studies, we compared the two strategies, showing that, ironically, the second pursuit brings more personal happiness than the first. Retrospective study 1 (N = 123) and experimental studies 2 (N = 96) and 3 (N = 141) show that trying to make someone else happy leads to greater subjective well-being than trying to make oneself happy. In all three studies, relatedness need-satisfaction mediated the condition differences. Study 4 (N = 175) extended the findings by showing that trying to make others happy is more personally beneficial than when others try to make us happy. Study 5 (N = 198) found that feeding strangers' parking meters produced the effect even though the participant did not interact with the targeted other.

Happiness comes from trying to make others feel good, rather than oneself